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Life Back On Track

DearJames,

I am starting a new job in my chosen profession. I need to keep this job to get my life back on track with my daughter and pay back debts. I am also in a cyber relationship with a nice man, but not sure where that will go.

Will I keep the new job, get myself out of debt, save money for J to go to college and start a relationship with L?

Irene

Dear Life Back On Track,

The phrase Never say Never is a powerful statement, add to it Never Say I Need To. You don’t need to keep this job; you would like to keep it.

By exchanging need to for I would like to, you eliminate the negative declaration of lack associated with your declaration.

I would like to experience sustained, gainful employment in my chosen field of expertise. I would like to earn a generous income so I may pay back my debts, have savings, and pay for my daughter’s college tuition. I would like to enjoy the company of a long-term/life-long committed companion, spouse, or partner.

I would like to…

Proactively trading in need (lack) for desire (affirmation) signals to the Universe that you are open to achieving and experiencing what is in your highest & best. When a promotion or other lucrative position / opportunity presents itself, would you say to the Universe, no, I need to keep THIS job??? Of course, you wouldn’t. Presuming the right circumstances, you would accept the new opportunity to continue your own betterment and advancement.

The point to be made here is in the significance of the subtlety of your unconscious statement / belief that you are somehow in a position of lack, need, and limitation. You are not. You are simply in a state of desire and how you go about meeting those desires matters.

The Universe is limitless and abundant. The more you openly condition yourself to invoke that belief and reality, the greater the return on your investments. Will you keep the new job, yes, for now, until you see that a far better example of what you would really like to do in life is both plausible and possible.

Will you get yourself out of debt? Slow and steady wins the race, so be pragmatic yet relaxed in your approach. You don’t need to stress. It doesn’t have to happen overnight, and you will see light at the end of this very long tunnel sooner rather than later.

Will you save money for J to go to college? Yes, however, do not overlook other ways by which to achieve the same outcome. Scholarships, Grants, Student Loans, Work Study / Student Employment, Employer Reimbursement Programs, Directional Schools, etc.

Will you start a relationship with L? You’ve already begun a relationship with L. The better question is, will this cyber relationship become a physical in-person relationship, and the answer to that question is, it’s not likely.

Why? Because as you begin to transition from limited to limitless, the attraction in this instance, for you, will fade. You’ll find that you are in a better space overall, and what had become a daunting experience, life, dating, etc., now offers adventure, excitement, activities and more.

The light will shine brightly for you once again, and that will be a very happy time indeed.

DearJames®