Is It Possible

Finding a soul mate is like discovering a new galaxy, planet, or universe, far rarer but not completely out of the question. Finding love on the other hand is like witnessing a shooting star; special, exciting, and far more frequent, even nightly if-you-will.

The problem lies in conflating the two. Many a romantic fall into despair when they can’t find their “soul mate,” leaving ample a lover, partner, friend, or companion to wither on the vine. Love is Love. Soul mates are rare and often come in platonic form. So, refine your definition of soul mate before you confine your opportunities for love. Love comes in many forms and facets, so be open to how, when, and where it presents itself in your life.

Your daughter’s drinking habits are borderline alcoholism. Her stopping or amending her habit is dependent upon whether she addresses the underlying root cause(s). Anger and resentment, primarily at you, plays a huge role. However, as she knows, this is both misguided and futile. Once she takes responsibility for her own life, actions, and choices, her drinking habits will change. Until then, it’s a roll of the dice.

As for your career and current work environment with your boss, there appears to be quite a lot of frustration and mistrust between the two of you. The idiom “when the cats away the mouse(s) will play” keeps playing in my head repeatedly. It appears that even though you have diligently tried to improve and make up for past acts there may be too much water under the bridge. A fresh start where your career is concerned is highly recommended. Just be mindful to not repeat any prior bad acts and choices.

Ultimately, all will sort itself out. However, with that said, do all that you can to help yourself. It is definitely a Jerry Maguire “help me, help you” reference and opportunity. Positive acts and attitudes go a long way in bringing us what we desire and in the most expedited manner.