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Having Children

DearJames,

Will I ever be able to have children.

Anonymous

Dear Having Children,

Your life is full of children and you must remember that throughout your life’s journey.  There are times in life that we choose to experience things in a manner that appears to be completely contradictory to what it is we actually really want.

In other words, just because you do not currently have children and may never physically birth children yourself, that does not mean that your life is or will be “childless.”  There are many ways in which you may allow yourself the gift of children.

Do not allow a physical obstacle or limitation to keep you from that in which you derive such great life pleasure.  While your issue is complex, both physically and emotionally, you have every opportunity to have children in this lifetime.

They may come to you by way of surrogate mother and egg, foster care, adoption, etc.  The ways and means by which you are able to open yourself to this desire are limitless; ensure that your beliefs and thoughts on this topic are also.

I believe that if you do in fact conceive naturally, it will not be an easy process or journey.  However, that said, just remember to live your life fully, knowing you have other options before you.

Then, no matter if you conceive the child from within or from one of the many other alternative methods, you’ll know your life is and was truly blessed, for you will share and experience the gift of life, children, family, and babies.

And that is a priceless life gift you are able to give yourself.

DearJames®