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Finding Love Again

DearJames,

Can a 64-year-old woman find love again?

Anonymous

Dear Finding Love Again,

ABSOLUTELY…YES a 64-year old woman can find love again, just as easily as a 24-year old or a 104-year old.  The magic of love lies not in the age of any person, but rather within their respective soul and spirit.

Finding love again at any age, requires one simple thing, the belief that it can and will occur.  In order to have that belief, you must find yourself worthy.  In order to be worthy, you must first love your self.

Behind your question is an immediate statement of self-doubt.  Thus, your beliefs are it “won’t or can’t” happen.  And with those underlying beliefs actively floating about in your mind, thoughts and actions, it certainly will NOT happen.

The key to eradicating that belief system is to focus inward.  How are you able to love and appreciate your self more?  Once you focus the energy of love inwardly, on loving your self more, the more loving and lovable you become.

That is powerful stuff and people are incredibly attracted to it.  Not only will love interests find you interesting and desirable, but you will also find that people in general will become more attracted to you, and thus begin commenting on your overall aura, energy, vitality and feeling of love, empathy and compassion.

Love is really quite simple.

By giving it to ourselves, we are giving it to others, not seeking it from others.

And therein lies the beauty and gift of love: It’s timeless, boundless, limitless, endless, colorless, genderless, etc.

There is no shortage of love in our world and the Universe; only our beliefs make it so.

Believe you will have and experience love again, and you will.

DearJames®