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Is He Faithful

DearJames,

Will my marriage last and is he faithful?

Anonymous

Dear Is He Faithful,

You’ve been down this road before and right about now you’re asking yourself “Why did I stay?”

The answer to that question and all the other ones in your heart are all within you.

You’ve already experienced them all, you’re just in the process of remembering.

There’s no easy way to ease the pain and regret of infidelity except to come to terms with the knowledge and understanding that there is deeper lessons and gifts to be discerned.

When we stop at the surface, “The Act,” we miss entirely the underlying gifts of soul wisdom and evolution we sought for ourselves.

The lesson is never in the actual transgression or “First Act” but rather in the discernment of the “Second & Third Acts,” the ongoing unfolding and blooming.

Like a play, the experience is not in the shock or denial of the traumatic event(s) that occur in the opening First Act but rather in the journey that is experienced and ultimately overcome and transcended in the subsequent acts.

There have been so many events that have led you to ask, “Will my marriage last and is he faithful.”

The answer to either of those inquiries isn’t what matters as they are “First Act” questions.

What truly matters is what you do on a soul-level with all the information, feelings, knowledge, and wisdom you have within you, and the self-forgiveness and transcendence you achieve.

Therein lies the “Second and Third Acts” respectively, the true gifts and gems.

The freedom and empowerment that comes from facing yourself, with the sole purpose and intention of achieving a greater level of openness, consciousness, and soul-growth-evolution is priceless.

Focus your energies less on him and more on you.

Openly state your intention to engage your soul, your soul-source connection.  Then be open to receive their wisdom and guidance even and especially when it’s hard to hear or accept yet speaks truth.

By leading with your heart, your soul, you open the door of potentiality to experience yourself on a far greater-higher plane.

A plane that not only serves your highest and best purpose but also ensures soul-growth development and evolution.

A plane comprised and founded upon Purity – Truth – Wisdom – & Understanding.

DearJames®