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Lost Its Connection
- PAST/FUTURE
- LOVE
- DATING/RELATIONSHIPS
DearJames,
My relationship seems to have lost its “connection.” Will my relationship thrive/change for the BETTER within the next month or so? Do you see US getting that connection back & the relationship progressing happily or do you see it ending?
Anonymous
Dear Lost Its Connection,
Everything in life is made up of energy. It is mutable, fluid, and ever changing.
Much like the currents of a mighty river or the tender rhythms of a babbling brook they each ebb and flow.
They etch lines into the hardened surfaces upon which they run forever changing the landscape before us.
In your specific instance the initial currents have ran their course and served their purpose, now it’s time to discern if there is still a greater distance to travel or has it simply run its full course.
The natural flow of that which was once intense, immense, new, and heightened, has given way to normality, boredom, and monotony.
No one can ever return the raging waters of the stream back into its place of origin any easier than placing the genie back in the bottle.
Once they have been released by the evolution of their journey they are forever changed, forever different.
Your relationship will thrive and change for the better as you each seek to give the other and yourselves permission to do just that, thrive and change.
Forward momentum is an essential life element and when it is embraced, encouraged, and celebrated it is priceless.
You may still have minor moments of ebbing and flowing, however, the greater of the journey has been accomplished and experienced.
Go forth with renewed inspiration to carve yet greater lines into your ever-changing landscape knowing it is what has yet to come that counts.
Be thankful and appreciative for the milestones already achieved and for the vast uncharted territory that lies ahead.
Much of what you seek you will find further down river. Invest in the Adventure.