What Is Blocking Me
Photo Credit: ARZTSAMUI/Shutterstock©️ What Is Blocking Me HEALTH TRUST/DISTRUST SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, What is blocking me from taking proper care of myself? J Dear What Is Blocking Me, At the heart of the matter is complacency and low self-esteem. Proper care requires a healthy mind, soul-source connection, and a determined will. When you lack the drive […]
Instant Satisfaction
Photo Credit: paulista/Shutterstock©️ Instant Satisfaction ADDICTION MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, What to do when I need to make better $ choices, but choose instant satisfaction instead of delayed satisfaction? BJ Dear Instant Satisfaction, STOP and PIVOT every time the urge to splurge plunges its hand into your pocket. All matter of addictions has plagued humanity since […]
Without Feeling Guilty
Photo Credit: Artens/Shutterstock©️ Without feeling Guilty ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT PAST/FUTURE SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, I have recently left an abusive relationship. I am emotionally stuck as I never have felt so much hate from another person before. I am getting older and want to know if there may be a healthy relationship in my future. Also, I want to […]
Will I Find Someone
Photo Credit: Frank Cone/Pexels©️ Will I Find Someone LOVE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, Will I find someone to love and be loved by, soon? Morganna Dear Will I Find Someone, The mystery to this answer lies within. The notion of “loving oneself” is written, spoken, and talked about more than any other Self-Help concept, and with […]
Meaningless Relationship
Photo Credit: Christopher Elwell/Shutterstock©️ Meaningless Relationship DECISION/INDECISION DATING/RELATIONSHIPS SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, I love my husband of 12 years and I love a friend of 20 years the same, but my friend is really needy. I’m wondering if he’s taking advantage of my kindness. Is it time to let go of the meaningless relationship? Anonymous Dear Meaningless […]
Right Path
Photo Credit: Triff/Shutterstock©️ Right Path LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE FAITH/RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, Am I following the right path? Jenny Dear Right Path, Shakespeare’s famous words “To Thine Own Self Be True” couldn’t be more “true” for you. You’ve walked a long road of self-doubt, indecision, blame, and banality and you are FINALLY on your feet and headed […]
Lost & Confused
Photo Credit: Tuchka/Shutterstock©️ Lost & Confused BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, I’m so lost and confused. My husband and I have been married for 9 years. The past few years have been a total struggle. My job is thriving yet not good enough for him. I am at my wits end. So many decisions I […]
Where Do I Stand
Photo Credit: Evgeny Karandaev/Shutterstock©️ Where Do I Stand BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE INFIDELITY SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, My husband, children and I were living with his parents as we were trying to save money for a down payment on a home. During this time, I was in a traumatic car accident and was temporarily disabled. This caused many problems at […]
Is It Wrong
Photo Credit: LilKar/Shutterstock©️ Is It Wrong MENTAL ILLNESS/HARMFUL THOUGHTS-BEHAVIOR/SUICIDE FEAR FAITH/RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY DearJames, I am a tangled web of self-doubt, self-destruction, and fear. I have good people in my life, but they see this in me and run away. Is it wrong to pray to God to please take my life. sandyk Dear Is It Wrong, […]
Is He Faithful
Photo Credit: nav/Shutterstock©️ Is He Faithful MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING INFIDELITY SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, Will my marriage last and is he faithful? Anonymous Dear Is He Faithful, You’ve been down this road before and right about now you’re asking yourself “Why did I stay?” The answer to that question and all the other ones in your heart are all […]