How Do I Begin

Photo Credit: Zastolskiy Victor/Shutterstock©️ How Do I Begin LIFE DEATH GRIEF DearJames, I have faced much loss in the past 4 years. I feel like I’m not the same person I was. I lost both my parents. I have a 14-year-old daughter and a 20-year-old sister. Everything feels like it’s crashing down on me. Will […]

Gone For Good

Photo Credit: Dan Collier/Shutterstock©️ Gone For Good ILLNESS/CHRONIC ILLNESS FAITH/RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY LIFE DearJames, Is the cancer gone for good? shelldeenee Dear Gone For Good, The brightest spots in heaven are reserved for angels such as yourself.  Your bright and cheery nature illuminates every crevice of your being.  It is in this place, this repository, you will […]

Career & Love

Photo Credit: Jennifer Johnson_BlueCherry Graphics/Shutterstock©️ Career & Love WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER LOVE LIFE DearJames, I was wondering if I should take an upcoming promotion at work, and if it will improve or worsen my situation. Also, am I currently with my soulmate, or no? That is my second question, have I found the right one? Anonymous Dear […]

Hard Knock Life

Photo Credit: Dawn Hudson/Shutterstock©️ Hard Knock Life ANXIETY/NERVOUSNESS/STRESS LIFE ANGER/RAGE DearJames, I have had 9 lifetimes in this one. I have had to do everything alone; schooling, raising my two sons, work, and now I am alone, but I like being alone. BUT my journey brought me among liars, cheaters, betrayers, etc.: rejected and used. […]

Eastern Culture

Photo Credit: Yulia Glam/Shutterstock©️ Eastern Culture HEALTH LIFE ANXIETY/NERVOUSNESS/STRESS DearJames, I live in an eastern culture where life is very different. I went through a painful marriage and fought for two years to get a divorce from the emotionally abusive situation. I started getting panic attacks in 2006, but after I moved into my parents’ […]

Money Problems

Photo Credit: nodff/Shutterstock©️ Money Problems LIFE MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES PAST/FUTURE DearJames, Will I be able to solve all my money problems? Anonymous Dear Money Problems, The answer to your question is both Yes and No, for you will be able to resolve matters, however, it won’t be in the manner or way in which you currently envisage. […]

Is He The One

Photo Credit: Jag_cz/Shutterstock©️ Is He The One LIFE LOVE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DearJames, Is the man I’m with the one? Anonymous Dear Is He The One, He’s definitely the Man of the Moment and for you that’s saying something.  I sense this relationship is one of the longest you’ve had in quite some time.  You’re not an […]

Enjoy Life Again

Photo Credit: Subbotina Anna/Shutterstock©️ Enjoy Life Again LIFE ANXIETY/NERVOUSNESS/STRESS HAPPINESS/HOPE/PASSION/JOY DearJames, I have the same question as “Want To Be Me Again.” How to stop the stress & learn to enjoy life again. Anonymous Dear Enjoy Life Again, Stress is internally manufactured and is a necessary evil, as sometimes it serves a beneficial purpose.  However, […]

Trying So Hard

Photo Credit: PhotoSGH/Shutterstock©️ Trying So Hard LIFE FAITH/RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY ADDICTION DearJames, I want to know why when I try the hardest, do I always get kicked down the most? I try my best. I work and provide for myself. I’ve been clean for almost 4 months. I’ve had my job for over a year. I pray […]

Having Children

Photo Credit: HelenField/Shutterstock©️ Having Children LIFE CHILD/CHILDREN FAMILY/FRIENDS DearJames, Will I ever be able to have children. Anonymous Dear Having Children, Your life is full of children and you must remember that throughout your life’s journey.  There are times in life that we choose to experience things in a manner that appears to be completely […]