Having His Baby

There is nothing you can do about the child coming into this world other than love him with all your being.

Every soul deserves to be welcomed into this world by a loving and compassionate parent / caregiver.

As for the baby-daddy and his trust issues, there is nothing you can do about that.

Those are his issues to address and overcome or not, not yours.

The focus of your attention needs to be on the health and wellbeing of your newborn child and yourself.

The better the two of you are together, the better the moral upbringing, compass, and livelihood of this young soul you have been entrusted with will be.

Remember, this newborn comes to you whole and complete.  He comes to you with a soul that has just as much to give and teach as he will receive and learn.

Learn from his soulful expressions just as you would from a grown adult.  Cherish the moments you create together as you each came to teach and learn with and from one another.

As he grows into the fine young man you envision him to be, demonstrate the beauty and gift of trust as it will have come at a very heavy price.

In the end, it is your joyful spirit and love for life that will sustain and enrich you both.

Look Forward, Not Back.

Trust yourself and your closest friends, allies, and family for support and guidance along the way, always remembering your own True North.

That internal compass that leads you every step of every day to greater and greater moments of self-expression, joy, life-experiences, love, commitment, and happiness.

While the journey is sure to have its moments of uncertainty and challenge, always remember to surrender into those moments so you emerge wiser, stronger, and more agile.

Only the faint of heart forget their chosen path and seek to blame others for their circumstances or lot in life.

You have chosen well, remember that always.