Has He Been Cheating

The better questions to ask yourself are “Why do I think he’s been unfaithful, and Why do I think the baby she’s carrying is his?”

Something deep within your being is talking to you and you should listen.

It’s reminding you of all the times you looked the other way.

It’s reminding you of things you’ve felt before and buried.

It’s reminding you to listen.

You already know the truth. It’s the facts that have yet to present themselves.

And the truth always has a way of coming out whether it’s about his possible infidelity or your relationship.

Whether he cheated is up for grabs.

Whether he is or isn’t the father of this baby is debatable…for many reasons, the least of which being her multiple liaisons.

What isn’t up for debate is his propensity to commit such acts, and that’s what has you concerned in the first place.

Something in his character has you concerned, otherwise you would never think what you think or ask what you have asked.

You need to have a very serious and real moment with yourself.

Not one where your mind runs rampant and astray but rather one where you listen with all your being to your heart, soul, and spirit.

You need to conclude once and for all, by yourself, whether this is really the man for you.

If he is, stick it out and trust him until given absolute reason not to.

If he isn’t, it won’t matter if he was or wasn’t unfaithful as that will not be the real reason for your separation.

Every answer you seek has already been answered within you.

You just need to summon the courage within to face yourself, so you release it all either by staying or leaving. Either way you propel yourself forward.

Be kind and good to yourself and the rest will follow.