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New Relationship

DearJames,

Will I develop a new relationship with the person I have just met.

Cotton

Dear New Relationship,

For all intents and purposes, you already have.  And you will be wise to enter this relationship with your eyes wide open.

Falling into a new love relationship is easy, getting out of one is another story.  The issue at hand here is all about your intentions and the underlying feeling or need to be “saved.”

Save yourself by taking a monumental leap backwards and ask yourself, why am I jumping into or pursuing this relationship?  When the answers come flooding in, have the courage to face the revelations head on.

Life is all about lessons, experiences, and we are routinely given the opportunity to learn our lessons in a multitude of ways from getting it BEFORE we ever embark down a road, to months, days, and years later.

The sense is that this will end up being a misalignment, and could come at a fairly heavy price emotionally, mentally, and even possibly physically.  You’ve come together or “met” for a reason, it’s up to you to decide how quickly you discern the reason, and more importantly, what you do with that knowledge and awareness.

Your intentions play a key role in the type of experiences you attract to yourself.  Take a serious look at your intentions and then seek to course correct them should all the warning bells begin ringing in your head / being.

While often uncomfortable, it is far better to heed the message of the loud ringing bells, than face the lessons of an elongated, misaligned relationship, that comes with a booming cosmic two-by-four.

In the end, you will find true love, you just want to be in the right space / alignment with yourself, so you attract the right man for the new and improved you.

Best to invest in yourself and leave mate shopping for another day.

DearJames®