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Lack Of Future Direction

DearJames,

I have a great career and make really really good money. I am in a transition period, sort of like being in between contracts. However, I have felt for a while now like I am supposed to be heading in a different direction career wise. I support the military and things funding wise are getting really tight. I am also running into conflict at work, admittedly of my own making in terms of reaction to things I feel are really unfair. I really love my job and feel like it’s my dream career, plus the salary (kids are in college) but things just aren’t panning out funding wise. I have ten months before I run out of funding. Should I continue to push hoping things work out, or acknowledge that hitting roadblocks is a sign I should be heading in a different direction?

Amy

Dear Lack Of Future Direction,

When the writing’s been on the wall for some time now, TAKE NOTICE and adjust your sails accordingly.  The Universe works in rather subtle, mysterious ways at times and other times very directly.

I call this Seductive Progression on behalf of your Guides, Angels, God and the Universe: going from slight nudges, to reoccurring themes or engagements, to flashing yellow caution warnings, to red alerts to outright two-by-fours to the back of the head.

In your case, they have been making multiple attempts to get you to willfully and consciously change course, even giving you ample time to make such life course corrections.

You are currently in the “Flashing Yellow Caution Warnings” stage.

You carry the weight of the world on your shoulders, especially where your family is concerned, however, it’s now time for that to change.  You want to be around for the “Golden Years” of life and this is your wake-up call.  CHANGE COURSE!!!

You cannot continue to be all things to all people; it’s just simply not sustainable.  This deep-seated need/desire to over achieve stems from your childhood and lack of love and attention you felt you endured.

It was always a case of “look at me,” often times at any and all costs.  There was competition for your parents love and attention and somehow you felt you were always on the losing end of that battle.

You were loved and cared for, it just may have come in a way or manner you have yet to understand, accept or realize.  Sometimes the harshest of circumstances are the greatest life gifts.  Know that you were meant to transcend these life lessons, not become them.

It’s time for your immediate family unit to step up and start shouldering their fair share of life and its responsibilities.  You are going to have to “die” in order to be reborn.  In that I mean, you’ll need to come to terms with the fact that you won’t cease to exist if you aren’t all things to all people.  Alter course.

Your family loves you and always will.  However, you are each doing a disservice to the other by not being your truest selves.  Co-dependence and enabling behaviors, camouflaged as kind acts and overwhelming generosity are only good for so long and really aren’t good at all, especially when their underlying intentions are discovered and revealed.

2014 is a year of revelation, exposure and transcendence.

You are being pushed or forced to surrender that which no longer serves you or others wellbeing.  You are being given the opportunity to transcend to a much more enlightened state of being and consciousness.

You are being taken to higher ground…the way or manner by which you arrive there is of course up to you and your free will; but go you will.

You have 10-months to master the art of this transformation…with pay.  How generous of the Universe.  You WILL land on your feet, and EVERYONE will survive this transformation.

You just need to have the courage to face the facts, listen to your heart and be the beacon of light as you lead the way to a brighter, more life-sustaining life and existence for you and your family.

The proof is in the pudding, so-they-say, and the Universe has given you the greatest recipe…FOLLOW IT / TRUST IT!

DearJames®